Yes, there is a right and a wrong way of having anal sex. So the question is more likely to be: “Do people who have anal sex need to wear tampons?” And the answer is nope. Bottoms? Because you know it’s not just gay men who bottom. So rather than letting myth turn to fact, we’ll answer them for you.ĭo gay men need to wear tampons or adult diapers? Where to begin. There are so many questions that people have, especially when their information comes through the grapevine.